Do you love the man but not the package?

This a question I had asked myself countless times. 

Do you love the man but not the package? 

It sound weird but if you ponder on this, marriage is a union between 2 willing parties. Being married 2 and half years really widen my horizon, make me grow up faster then expected. I have a lovely partner but an ugly " package" that come with it. Somehow I detest this kind of hypocrites. Do we have to pretend to "smile" with the so-called family that can hurt you and at the other end "pretend" nothing happened. It truly make me think twice to be associate with them. It was just disappointment to the heart. I can't really pretend nothing happened, my heart still bleed a little here and there. Although it is always good to forgive and forget but I think it just takes a longer time for me. Now, I just hope to make my stand clear. And my partner too bad for him. Filial piety is good but overdose only ended up hurting the person u love. 

I am just hope people can leave us in peace. 

God blessed!